My whole life, I struggled with feelings of worthlessness and unattractiveness. It took years to set me free.
You are misunderstood quite often, friend. And by quite often, I mean almost 99.9 percent of the time. Especially by Christians like myself. I've grown quite EXHAUSTED of these misunderstandings and distortions. For your sake. And for mine. I have lived 28 years having sexual purity DRILLED into my mind. Any Christian who grew up within my age … Continue reading Dear sexuality,
I'm going to be honest (SHOCKING, I know). Life with you has not turned out how I planned. In just about any category. I mean, I had PLANS. Awesome PLANS that you WRECKED. That's right. You've WRECKED them all. And they were pretty darn good, if you ask me. INSERT SIDE NOTE: If any of you … Continue reading Dear God,
I'm doing it. I'm CALLING YOU OUT. And I'm gonna tell you the things you should do because we as women WANT you to do these things (or at the very least, this woman wants you to do these things). I'll preface this all by saying that men, I think you're great. I love how … Continue reading Dear men,
You mean well. I know it in my soul. But in my less than holier parts, I am mostly just screaming, "Whyyyyy?" Or "Stahhhhp!" It alternates really. So here are some things you should never say to an unattached loved one. Because he/she is likely thinking or feeling some variation of my crazy, sarcastic and … Continue reading Dear people who try to encourage me about singleness,